When I was a Christian, I used to believe that God and Jesus could take care of all my problems. Regardless of what it was – schoolwork, dealing with a bully, having a sick loved one, healing from a broken heart, etc., I always trusted that all is well because God has my back and […]
Because it’s been way too long since you’ve heard me rant about politics… All you Christians (and all spiritually-inclined people for that matter) with your “I stand with Israel” flags and profile pics – I hate to break it to you, but you’re doing it wrong. You think Jesus would have picked sides? I’m pretty […]
I’ve been home for almost a week, but just reflecting on my time at the ocean… The ocean has always been so healing for me. I didn’t start going to the ocean regularly until Dustin and I started dating. His mom had recently moved to the beach in Florida, so we went down to see […]
So… that didn’t quite go as planned. hahahaha Oooooohhhhh life. It wasn’t all bad. But dang. That was not what we intended. They spun it a lot differently than what we expected, and our story wasn’t portrayed the most accurately. (For example, we are a polyamorous couple, not a polyandrous couple – there’s a big […]
Dustin and I can finally talk about the super secret huge project we’ve been working on for over two years! ….. We’re gonna be on TV! ….. A TLC reality show about polyamory and open relationships called Seeking Brother Husband. Though I’m not a fan of the name (ha!), I am excited for the opportunity […]
Ok, y’all. It’s time. I’ve tried to drop little nuggets of info here and there, but it’s time to have that critical conversation. My silence is consent, and I do not consent. Before I start, I want you to know that I am not here to say I have all the answers and have figured […]
I thought politics were divisive…but that ain’t nothing compared to the self-righteous, “I’m right, you’re wrong” attitudes that are coming out of this pandemic. Sheesh! News flash to all the Judgey McJudgerson’s out there – even during a global pandemic, you are still supposed to be LOVE. Tensions are already high due to the massive […]
I’ve carried this card around with me in various journals for over 14 years. It was given to me by the prosecutor who worked my case when I was attacked and sexually assaulted in college. It states: “Dear Kim, I wanted to drop you a note and let you know that I have been thinking […]
Whew… what a year. I know 2020 was a big one for everyone. We all have our stories of how our worlds were changed. So, crazy times, eh? In case you haven’t noticed, there is a clear line being drawn in our society right now and we all need to decide which side we’re going […]
Last weekend, Dustin and I went to see our friend Judy‘s play, It Didn’t Happen: An Erotic Odyssey at a local theater downtown. It’s an autobiographical piece she wrote and starred in, directed by Phillipe Andre Coquet of the Cauldron Theater Company. They debuted it at the Asheville Fringe Arts Festival in January, and then […]